When you find a home you build it from inside with your heart walls. When you're anxious to construct a house you try to glue two epidermis, from outside to inside.
When you build a home it´s an involuntary act. Your walls even when they seem different from the other one walls tend to fuse into a whole.
When you force to build a house even when you have the absolute certainty that the other is your soul mate tend to be a prison of walls . Instead of protecting from outside world they alienate you from it.
Marta to JCR